DE,

I would think that this is not "normal" behavior and that perhaps some counselling is in order. To me, someone who needs alcohol or drugs to relax needs help. It's hard to approach someone who doesnt seem to think they have a problem and in my past experience, my concerns have fell on deaf ears. All you can do as a friend is voice your concerns and assure this friend of yours that you will do what ever you can as a friend to help them. I'm sorry I dont have better advice for you. I sure do hope everything works out. Take care and please keep us posted. Much love.


Jen