Hows it going I see you havent posted for a bit I hope all is ok ?

I have a son aged nineteen who is currently in prison, he has given all of us as a family heartache since the day he was born.

He has done things I am ashamed to say on here thats how bad they are.

Do we or I hate him ? No, I helped create him. I am in no way having a go at you as I wont judge I have been judged myself over the years and wrongly.

While living with him you cant have the type of relationship you should be having you will just have one of 'hatred' as he is affecting the whole house and resentment will be caused.

He needs to move out and you as a family need to draw in some strength from somewhere and help him. He is not in his right senses to be talking of killing himself.

Its a sad catch 22 you have gotten into and moving him out will be the first step to helping him.

I really feel this needs to be expressed to him that you are doing it because the way it is working now you are all bringing yourself down as a unit, when you should be pulling together.

Explain how you ALL love him and the aim in life now is to make him a priority within the family.

There is somthing very very wrong with him at the moment and he needs the attention or you just may lose him.