Tks sleeps .. court order is on file (with government)... and he is remarried ( within weeks after divorce).. was married for 26 years but by the time I might get ss (when he reaches real retirement age) there wont be money. ... You only have to be married for ten years to get benies... but I doubt it for me.... yeah he's worse than ever... not to mention he gained about 200 lbs... yep has to be at least 400 lbs...