((((BlackTears))))

Sending you hugs. Sorry you are going through this. And I am sorry you and your kids are so sick. I hope you all feel better really soon. I do not know what to really say about the other. I just know from experience that staying together for the kids is not the best solution. Sometimes, kids think they are to blame when things go wrong. Just take time to think and talk to him about things. I wish you the best of luck.

dps