((((bananasarecool))))

I hear you about crying in front of someone, and feeling afraid that it will hurt them. But tears are cleansing and sometimes okay to let go. Holding them in is not good. You did nothing wrong with crying----and shutting down and pretending everything was okay hurt you. Having a open honest relationship is being able to be yourself no matter what. I agree with Berries that it can bring you closer to someone as you are showing you trust them with your pain. Know we are here for you and care very much. Be kind to yourself.

dps