Peppermint Patty have you ever went and discussed your issue's with a therapist, or even a PDOC? Most people really aren't to concerned with what other people do. This seems to bother you for some reason. If you want to live your life with statistics that's ok, but why would it bother you if someone else chooses not to? These are two people who are of legal age to do as they please. If this was a case of a teenager under the legal age than it would be a problem. We are human beings, we live,learn, and make mistakes.