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Old Jul 20, 2009, 03:20 PM
william1971 william1971 is offline
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OK, I've been with my current girlfriend for like 2 months now. In the beginnig before we became offcial she told me she kept in touch with an ex of hers from time to time, but since we became an official item she told him that she doesn't want to continue their communcation. Ever since then she told me she doesn't talk to him anymore - at all; so I took that as the plain truth.

A couple of weeks ago I found a message on her cell phone from him saying, he wanted to get back with her. I confronted her about it and she admitted that she receives texts from him telling her he wants her back but that she doesn't respond to them.

So ever since that conversation I've been feeling very worried and nervous about our relationship. I basically have a hard time trusting her and that she's not seeing this guy behind my back. I have to admitt she spends most of her time with me but that still doesn't make me feel secure about the relationship. I want to trust her but I don't want to be naive about anything either. What should I do? I hate feeling nervous all the time.