How ironic that you should post from your point of view because we just had the nuclear blast of fights, frankly I don’t know if our relationship will ever recover. BECAUSE she was taking every single thing as a personal attack I made an effort today to adjust my tone of voice so that she would hear what I’m saying and not jump to the defense. So NOW she’s thinks I’m being CONDESCENDING. WTF?!?!?! I cannot win for losing. I’m done. I’ve tried being sympathetic, I’ve tried understanding, I’ve tried civil. Now I’m done. I don’t care WHAT the source of her attitude is anymore, I will not be disrespected in my own house.