((((kerria)))) There are plenty of members here who do understand just what you are saying.

I'm wondering what would help you most in increasing good communication with all your parts. There is some communication since you know who and what is doing what or not, and who is feeling bad about what... and that's a good thing. (Versus noone knowing who is doing what at any time.)

Usually writing notes is important. It keeps everyone on track, if they can read. Maybe when your adult parts read the notes, part of the agreement (in writing) is that they read it OUT LOUD so any littles can also hear?

If you know some of what needs to be done... like someone needs to tell the boss something, then either ask for a part that can do that, or ask for help in writing it?

I've also heard of adult parts telling the littles to go play for a while or go to sleep and take a nap for when adult things happen. That would include the hospital visit? Maybe buy or bring a special comfort toy or cushy item to help them feel better too?

I guess the most important thing is for all of you to know that you are each important, and each have a job to do. It isn't one part against the other, per se, but how each of you have worked together to keep the body, main person, etc, safe.

I trust all will work out for you. It's important that your doctor know you are dissociative. Whether you explain how intensely is up to you.