Thank you on back, Debbie! Mucho hugs to you.

I looked back at this thread to remind me, cause I am in need of reminders tonight. I am all scared and spooked by what I think someone else is saying.

So instead of challenging them and possibly getting into something uncomfortable, I can notice my reaction, and as you eloquently put it, Debbie...(I hope everyone reads what she wrote).........I could focus on something else! Something good, something fun! (Can I? Don't I have to freeze like a deer in headlights?) Mmm.......maybe I don't have to take it personal, maybe I can skip the indepth analysis etc, maybe I can just live and breathe and keep moving.

I'm going to put on some good music and dance.

Sarah