Well here is another area I am odd in. I do not have outbursts and the only time I mess things up is with anxiety. Like if I have an attack and have to leave somewhere..I always apologize to anyone I am with and hope they stay while I freak in the john or outdoors. Like once, I went to an AC/DC concert and just freaked..anxiety......so I told the dude I was with to stay and I went and sat in the lobby area then outside. I told him I was sorry later and explained it was anxiety. Thats what I do. I have lost jobs due to anxiety.