Jeez, what a frightened bunch of insecure people here; I have to say I'm no different. My girlfriends ex keeps trying to get back with her and it worries me completely. The only answer I can come up with for gaining trust is:
1) Lots of therapy
2) Self-Help books on Self-Esteem/Trusting
Working on yourself and these negative patterns over time is really the only way (if there is indeed one). It's hard when you've been burned so many times in the past but we can't afford NOT to do anything about it!
May the force be with you all!
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