I am single and I don't like it at all!

I have tried online dating websites only to connect with undesirable men to put it politely.

I enjoy making pottery but the classes are 90% women everytime I have been to one. The men that do go are either married or dating someone in the class.

When I get accepted into a new program at college I will be in a mostly all female program.

I feel rather low about myself because my meds have lowered my metabolism...etc. I guess I need a self-esteem boost?

I am normally shy around good looking men and lost for words when I am around them.
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Where does one find good men that have morals and are genuiinely a good person that wants to eventually be in a commited relationship?

After online dating I don't really have a clear view of what men desire in a woman. Most of them had an age range, height, weight,..........list goes on. I'm in my early 30's but I look more like 25ish. I'm 5'4 with a cuvry figure thanks to my meds. And some ppl have told me that I am cute.

Am I unattractive to a potential partner because I am not in my 20's anymore? It just seems to me like some men have put an age limit on who they will date...etc.

I feel confused, sad, and desparate.