Hi (cristina)

I have found that dealing with "everything else" as you call it is as healing, if not more so, than dealing with the actual "events" head on. I think this is because when we are abused it effects all aspects of our lives. I think you should just follow your heart and know that the rest will come when you are ready--and it sounds like that might be soon! In the meantime, maybe you can get a little "box" IRL. --- Like a shoebox or something and write down stuff and put it there to keep until you are ready. This way you can clear your body of the toxic nature of holding onto it.

Anyway--just some ideas. I think you are doing fabulous!