I not only pick at myself, but at my bf too. He gets quite annoyed by it, but I can't seem to help it, just seeing a spot or something bugs me and it has to go.. Annoys me too sometimes.

Getting rid of ingrown hairs by picking, isn't a good idea and i know that but i still do it! The best way to go about it is to put a hot cloth/spoon/anything hot on the ingrown hair and draw out the pus and open up the pore that the hair is stuck in. That saves scarring and makes it much less painful