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Originally Posted by Cthomas
I was told in passing that I am too needy all the time.
You being needy was your interpretation, they didn't say that?
That this person. says: "well id have more time for this or that but I spend so much of my time with you on the phone". thats not a criticism, just a fact. I dont mind being on the phone with you all the time, just stating that I would have more time to do other things If i werent preoccupied on the phone with you.
I took it as, "you are too needy"
Am I wrong?
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What were you all talking about that led to this comment?
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Originally Posted by Cthomas
that they cant imagine being without me for a day. But yet, a comment in passing, that I spend too much time.
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So they want to talk on the phone a lot too then?????
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Originally Posted by Cthomas
I dont need people thinking im needy.
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Why?
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