Hi seeker. I know about yahoo personals and wonder why, if you were both honest about your spirituality how this mixup occurred! I'm sorry you are so torn. I met a guy with a PhD and he was taken with me also...and left his card for me to pick up at my table... but it went nowhere. I am wondering if there is something to the idea that if we all were so wonderful, we wouldn't be on yahoo personals?

Anyway... I digress.. I'm sorry it seemed he only wanted a physical relationship. I hope you can continue to seek... I agree with you, that even 4 years age difference can be big if other factors are not close too.

Don't feel humiliated... this was part his problem too... learn what you can and you'll become better at it.. remember, you had no practice for a long time and the field and rules tried changing!