Thanks Muffy,

I learned my lesson that is for sure so no matter how close I might get to someone, I am not going to give out my name or meet them in person. It will be like the old fashioned days where people had friendships through writing letters. It can still be a close relationship, but a safer one for all involved. I think it is good to have all kinds of friendships and people from PC knows what we are going through because someone out there shares some of the same issues.
I know I shouldn't compare sites but it seems like there is a lot more understanding here of different disorders, especially PTSD and survivors of abuse. This site is actually amazing on the compassion and support we give each other. It will be hard not to want to meet those I get close to here, but after I have been "burnt" I don't want to go there again.