I am glad you came back here! It was weird not having you around. I am glad that you seeked out your counselor at school when you needed someone, that action is huge! In fact it is a good idea to keep her in your back pocket just in case.
THere was a time when I thought your T wasn't going to work out with you, I still think she was wrong with how she handled some things, but it seems like she must have worked it out maybe in her own therapy. I am glad she is helping you again.
I think sometimes ruptures help the relationship. I think sometimes we expect T's to be perfect in the relationship, but they are human afterall and can mess up (even professionals) I know I was ready to quit my T and even seeked out another one. But when I found out the how awful this person was, I realized my T wasn't THAT bad. LOL At least she is willing to learn and now things are really feeling relaxed between us. I am opening up more and she is honoring that.
T relationships is a strange thing...
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