Hi Marjan~

Absolutely.
Remove her, and anyone else who YOU don't want on YOUR book. This is your space, your choices, and YOUR control.

And, to be bluntly honest.....To hell with what she, or your ex, or anyone, for that matter, may think. You know the REAL reason why you have removed her.
Let em both wallow in their own lil illusions of their realities, as you merrily progress along your way.
YOU are the better for this, and that is how it's supposed to be.....about YOU...and screw the rest.

Be proud of yourself that you have the strength, courage and wisdom to progress forward...and, perhaps a little bit of satisfaction knowing that you have left them wondering what your actions really mean, (whether or not they want to believe it is in their favor is besides the point). The point is that you took control and removed yourself from the drama they were creating for you.

Try to look at it this way, if they think or say anything about you as a result of you removing them the access to your life, then that can only mean that they are jealous that they don't have the control over their own reality as you have over yours.....And the bonus is..that you are no longer a part of it, so you don't need to even concern yourself with what they think or say.....YAY YOU!!!!

I'm sorry this is still haunting you...but soon, those ghosts will all be put to a final rest....

Take care.....

Shangrala