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I think you have been doing wonderfully....give yourself a pat on the back for how far you have come ok? You were in dire straights and stayed with us. That took courage and you have that in you. I am proud of you.

As for those regrets? Oh my hun....I know...they can eat at you but what you can do is to look at them all in a positive way.......yes you lost your love.....but - you are becoming a stronger and better person- think of how wonderful the next woman is going to be in your life. You have so much to offer...you really do.

Think of all those good days you are having....I am noticing here on the boards that your good days are starting to come close to the number of your bad days and that is success in my book hun. You had a time here that those bad days were all you had and I see now your sense of humour, personality, spirit and light shining through your words. I am liking what I am seeing and I know you will someday soon too.


Heather

"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown