Hey Sorry it has been so long... So Sunday I went to church in the morning and to my friends house for lunch. I came home started cleaning up took my baby girl for a walk. My husband was watching tv on the couch all day..he looked pitiful. He was being corgal I had asked him a few things and he was polite. So I asked him if he was ok and said he was sick..so I pulled some stuff out of the cabinet and gave it to him to take. I sat at the end of the couch to watch tv after I put the baby to bed. he kept rubbing his toes on me. Then he went to bed and said I could come if I want. I asked him if he wanted to talk he said I don't know. so I laid in bed and he started cuddling with me and we slept together. afterwards I was so confused he said he wanted a divorcef still but its harder than he makes it seem. I said well then we shouldn't be doing this. so I went to sleep in the other room. Monday morning he was home sick from work. I called some places..I was ready to be done to work towards getting out on my own. I had a laywer scheduled to call me thurs. So I told him I was going to file for divorce and he seemed mad about everything, I said to him this is what you wanted. and how we need counseling. I also mentioned he should see a psychologist but he doesn't think he needs to. So I went to lunch with a friend I came back and he was moving furniture around and told me he would go to counseling. and nothing more was talked about I set up an appt. for sat. He has been acting normal like nothing even happened. I hope that through our counseling he can realize he has a problem. Talk about confusing? all the things he had said then now he is normal and nicer than before?? what is it because his ex didn't want him. I am pretty sure he got a hold of her because he knew I had talked to her. he said that was psycho of me. and we were getting a divorce so he didn't do anything wrong. He is being a totally different person, but I love this side of him and its so hard to not let him in.