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((((kaika)))) I may be wrong but it sounds like your mom is kind of a floor mat to your step dad. And your step dad sounds like he would be an unpleasant person to be around. Just because someone is the way the are, does not mean another person (you) has to like it. For example: just because your mom likes chocolate, or loud obnoxious people, does not mean you have to.
I certainly hope you won't start calling him Dad if you don't feel that way about him. That's not healthy for you, and it certainly isn't healthy that your mom is pressuring you to do something you clearly feel strongly about NOT doing. It's not as if your are a little girl or are doing something self destructive. Matter of fact, it does sound like she may be doing it for her own motives and benefit. Is there a chance you could talk about this with your dad and ask him to speak with your mom or step dad about this?
When you say they left their bedroom door open, do you mean while they were having sex or while he was undressed? If that is so, this is raising a GIANT red flag in my mind. There is such a thing as covert abuse, Elysium, I think, put up a link about it in the abuse forum. You should read that if either of these incidents did happen and your step dad is blaming you. Keep your distance from him and if you feel at all uncomfortable tell you mom, your dad, keep telling until you find someone who will support you and help you deal with your step father.
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