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Old Jul 24, 2009, 10:39 AM
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Much of the feelings you have concerning your boyfriend are because you were abused as a child by your father. Why your mother took him back is a very good question and you are a smart young lady. Your mom as many, though different, problems as your dad does.

Your boyfriend probably does not have any insight at all into his own behavior. For him to change he would need a lot of therapy, imo. He is being abusive to you, just as your dad was/is.

You finish school, keep your job, trust yourself, take care of yourself and get out of your parents home as soon as you can. You are a good kid in a bad situation with an unsupportive family. That's a real tough spot to be in. When ever you are able to, you should go into counseling to help yourself and get support. There's nothing wrong with YOU, it's the people around you that are sick.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
Thanks for this!
Shangrala