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Originally Posted by FeelingSad
First Off HAPPY BIRTHDAY mARJAN!!! hAVE A GREAT BDAY, i KNOW ITS HARD, BUT tREAT YOURSELF TO A GREAT DAY! You Deserve it! Second , I am so sorry your going through the same thing,I am there now too,So def understand the feeling.You too, Hang in. Exercise is good, I sing , So I Try and focus on that and I love writing so I do that too. Sometimes it helps get my mind off stuff and then sometimes I just cry.But Im trying to do better. I def wont laugh at your post lol. means alot , you reached out to me.Thing Is I know this Guy I will be friends with always and always care about him, So learning to deal is what I have to do.Your right, never know what the future holds, but like you , Def dont want to date at all now. So Your idea and everyone elses to do hobbies is a good one.
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Life will go on no matter what we do...It's better to choose to be happy and peaceful rather than sad and disturb....to be happy is better to eliminate those who are taking our happiness away even though we like them...what is this liking? liking somebody who makes you misrable? what is the friendship with such a person even? that's not a friendship...the basic of friendship is to care about each other and be for each other...if that gets violated, then there is no friendship left!
I'm getting stronger after my birthday....now that he didn't say happy birthday to me, I know for fact that he stopped all communication with me....he showed me that he doesn't care about me at all even as a friend....well, I want to get rid of him too....I'm rolling back the time now....I blocked those girls who are his friends and added me to facebook after me start dating with him....now I got rid of three of them so far....and tonight, I'm going to block one more....then very soon, he will go to my block list...although, I might see him in the dance class, but I'm giving myself time to delete him from my memory completely and remove all the emotional attachments....then I'm more relaxed to see him and be around him even in the class!
Anyway, stay strong and you will find that special person....you don't need to go dating right now....I'm not into dating stuff right now either...I can't just jump from one relationship to the other one...it doesn't work for me...we need to heal and get our positive energy back, then good and positive people will get attracted to us
take care and love yourself
Marjan