((((((((((((((((((Shirley))))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry your going through this. My question to you is, Why should you be the one to retreat? Why cant he give a little bit and compromise? Your a strong women. A mother. You must first do what you feel is in the best interest for those children because they are the # 1 priority.

Your feelings of being exhausted and scared are so normal. I remember going through a similar experience with my ex husband and it is no fun. You have to remember the bottom line. Your children. Their needs. Also, you must start a life seperate from your ex now. Be strong, stand on your own two feet and have the courage to say....No....This is Shirley and these are my children and I will fight tooth and nail for them.

You are doing the right thing hun. You really are. I know its hard to see when your in the thick of it. I am here for you if you need to vent anymore at anytime. Take care and Much love.


Jen