She is talking to her ex tonight...I think they are going to try to work things out...I hate this back and forth for my grandson...They are both so immature..I told her that she needs to remember how unhappy she was (even before she found out he cheated on her with her best friend) and still seek counseling before she makes any decision to go back...He has lied to her and cheated on her and in the last 6 months really made no effort to change that I can see.

In my heart of hearts...I would love nothing better than to see them have a healthy relationship and that would be best for my grandson...and my daughter. But he has never been able to deal with her chronic bladder disease.

I am just a ball of anxiety tonight..she is going to tell him that she has been with someone else since they have been separated and I don't know how he is going to take that...I tried to get her to wait until she had a T appointment to do this, but she is determined to do it tonight.

My H is upset because we have done so much for her to get her out. So much money...helped her get an appt, paid a lot of her bills, bought her a car...I don't know how to make him feel better about this. I don't know how I feel about this...

Geez...I can't even manage my own life/issues....I think I am finally losing it...