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Old Jun 14, 2005, 12:32 PM
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Jen, what's in the best interest for the kids? I don't know anymore. It sure isn't spending their entire summer in lawyer's offices and courtrooms and being made to choose. It isn't their father telling them the winner will be the best liar.

Maybe it is a house with two adults, a man and a woman, and get togethers with friends and family, being told what to do and when and how and never questioning anything, having a hand raised with crazy eyes and gritted teeth to make you flinch and think you're going to be hit, and never knowing when or if you really will be. Maybe it is doing without the things a kid should be able to have so the grownups can have their fun instead.

Maybe I am fabricating things. Maybe things aren't as bad as my kids say they are sometimes. If they're playing one against the other, they're only hurting themselves this time because it's taking all the extra credit I have to sink into this fight instead of using it for other things. I just don't know anymore. I just don't know.
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