Please get out of this relationship Stars. You are worth so much more than what this boy is making you feel. He does not love you - Telling someone they love them and then acting the way he does is not love. You don't need to ask those questions about him either. You are not a psychologist. Don't concern yourself with trying to find out why he does what he does, it will just prolong the negative situation you are in.

There are some good breakup books out there too. Maybe you could go to your local bookstore and check some out. Just leaf through them, and get some ideas on how to leave him for good and deal with the emotions you have with leaving and being apart from him. It will probably suck at first, as, breakups suck. But you will be glad you did it.

Take care of yourself, Stars. Be good to yourself. Do something that makes you happy.