Thank You, friends. We decided to take care of ourselves because we are in a tough issue right now. So, WE ARE STAYING HOME - HOORAY!

We older parts feel bad, our family are pretty good folks and are not mean to us over our limits. But we know we are disappointing our spouse pretty badly and it makes him the only solo there with no partner. Sigh...

Does anyone know any ways to get over feeling this way - as in panicked over social affairs??? We do want to get past this and we feel kinda crummy for skipping out.

I made my choice and now I gotta deal with the consequences cos that's just life.

See ya'll