I have been in a marriage involving domestic violence for several years. My husband is now living out of the home and we are supposed to be working on our marriage. He has been out of the home for approx 2 months and has been sober since leaving. He is supposed to be getting help for the violence and abuse and has only attended one class and has many excuses for not going back. He still tries to control me on every level, even to the extent of complaining about my friends (ladies) being at the house and my time with them. Has anyone ever been in this situation that can point me in the right direction? Is there really hope for us, or is he still trying to do as little as possible and reap all the rewards of this marriage.