((((((((((Krazibean))))))))))

Those mothers are sure tricky
I'm sorry to hear you haven't heard back from your T yet... but the fact that she offered to come pick you up, and called you back earlier tells me that she cares a great deal for you. Maybe just try and keep that in the back of your mind until you do speak with her again.
As for your mother... I wish I had something to offer. I too have my fair share of mother issues, and i'll be 21 in a month. Feel free to PM if you ever want/need to chat about anything.
Happy belated, hope things turn around for you soon
Jacq