You were more than generous with him. He's made his choices - now if he doesn't like them it is up to him to make a better life. It doesn't sound like he's willing to give you what you need from a husband, and you've already been through it all with him. Enough is enough.

<font color=red>"Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing." -Harriet Braiker</font color=red>