thanks for all of the advice. I did not withdraw the order based on the advice of the advocate form the womens shelter. He did get visitation. He did yell at me , tell me i lied about everything and said I was crazy when he came to get his stuff this afternoon. My brother was here and said he didn't want to take sides. I feel so stupid. My husband did get mandatory anger mangement counsling for 6 months. I hope he doesn
t kill me before he goes. I do have a safety plan but i am still scared.