When we post on PC we are obviously thinking about our Ts. But what about when we are not posting?

I used to think about my T almost all of the time, especially when I was what I call "addicted" or "obsessed" with her. I am using these words because that's the way I thought of it, whether they are accurate or not.

When I started feeling better about myself, I thought about her less. Or, maybe more accurately, I thought of her in a more helpful way. I guess that's when the attachment became more secure. But I still thought of her at least once a day. Now I notice that sometimes a few days go by and I don't think about her. But usually something reminds me of her every day. Of course it's different for me because I don't see her regularly. I'm still curious as to how often everyone thinks about their Ts.