SWBF,

No you haven't done anything wrong here. My post was a gentle reminder for all of us to make sure we were taking care of our own boundaries and not seeing every post as personally directed at us but instead seeing that ppl are sharing THEIR experiences........which are all different.

I did not mean to imply my post was a list of questions to be answered or else! There were the ponderances I had regarding what happens when we all get triggered and what we do about it after the fact.

Your sharing of your experience was fine. I appreciate that folks take the time to reply and do so with such honesty.

Thank you for joining in and I hope if you have more to contribute you will....that is if you're comfortable doing so.