I do have a T. Actually, Jon and I are seeing the same T - both individually and as a couple. She's really great for both of us. She's very ethical - doesn't share ANYTHING about the others' individual sessions and we both really like that. But it is nice that she sees us both because she gets both sides of the story, a more dimensional picture of each of us. She's REALLY really good.

She's talked before that I might need some additional assistance dealing with something she called "transference". Not sure what that's about...but I get to see her tomorrow.

It sure can be confusing sometimes. I consider myself lucky - with my own disorders, I understand a little about serious conditions like this. I'm trying to learn as much as I can. I wish I understood more.

I haven't been able to talk about the other night with him yet. Maybe I can try that tonight. I don't think Jonathan even knows about the sex abuse stuff I've been dealing with. Jon does, but they're all only semi-co-conscious.
Does anyone have any suggestions how I should handle this? Or any suggestions about how you would like your partner to deal with something like this?

For some good news, we're about to buy a house!