Hi All~

Thanks for all of your replies. I appreciate it.
I printed it all out, gave it to hub, allowed him time to read it all and received the response that I knew he'd give....Negative and defensive.

There is something that I need to correct. I made a comment in my reply (#10), which I need to clarify, as it is not accurate.
I really don't even know why I said it....maybe I was hoping ....hell, I don't really know why I said this:

"There is a chance that hub and I may overcome all this. And, I don't like the fact of placing all the responsibility on the "one or the other", as it takes two to make it work. But, in this case, the long term fate of this marriage IS in his hands, now. And, I sort of already know where that will lead us...(although, I understand that miracles do happen). We'll see".

~ There ISN'T a chance that we will overcome this!
~ The fate is NOT in his hands!

Maybe...I put it there trying to fool ...whomever...I don't know. I honestly don't know. I apologize.

However.....
~ Miracles DO happen. But the miracle I'm hoping for is that I get out of this as soon as I can with the least bit of his interference....and that I will survive this quickly...(as I already suspect I will).

I'm sorry for misleading any of you....NOT my intentions.
Again...I have no idea why I even included that.

Shangrala