Found this when surfing...something about them really hit the spot.

1. I'd like you to choose five adjectives that reflect your childhood relationship with your mother. This might take some time, and then I'm going to ask you why you chose them. (Repeated for father)

2. To which parent did you feel closest and why? Why isn't there this feeling with the other parent?

3. When you were upset as a child, what would you do?

4. What is the first time you remember being separated from your parents? How did you and they respond?