As Bonnie Raitt sings, "Baby, we can choose; ya know we ain't now amoeba..." Junerain is right; in my last attempt at relationship, I was so unexpectedly drawn to this man, I let all my values and beliefs fall by the wayside. I immediately started hearing that "inner voice" screaming that I was in trouble bigtime. I blamed my actions partly on my extended solitude (3 years) prior to meeting a man, but no matter how long I remain alone in the future, I will refrain from such reckless behavior.
Seeker