First, I have to thank everyone for sharing with me. I have benefitted greatly. However, I have made a major mistake. Basically, she asked what was wrong, and I told her....all about how I felt about her lack of personal responsibility, everything being the 'trauma's' fault...and boy did she get upset. She threw around scholastic psych terms proving she is 'right' and I am obviously wrong (though I was just talking about how I felt- no rights or wrongs). She then started to attack me and my apparent struggles with addiction, and threw more intellect about psychology. She refused to even consider my views, saying that 'in the first year of psychology, everyone learns...'. She ended with the she supports me through my issues, but I do not support her. She was often extremely irrational, bringing things into the convo not even mentioned nor relevant. Did I 'trigger' her? Now I'm peeded off. Was it a bad idea to bring this to her? What if someone came to you with similar thoughts?