Hey, Nocturne. It may feel as if you're lost but you're not, really.

How do you feel about being pressured to "get out the sooner the better"? You need to be good to yourself and not jump off that cliff without looking. If you can, why don't you try talking to your wife and ask her to give you some time to find a place. I'm sure even the courts would allow you time to find a place to go.

Good luck... and I hope you keep posting. With all these great minds, someone's sure to find an answer.

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