I love my husband with all of my heart and soul but our kids always have and always will come first for both of us. I don’t see anything wrong with him spending time with his adult daughter, perhaps he’s feeling (as my husband is) that these days are numbered. As children get older, their future spouses and families take a primary role in their life. Don’t ever make the mistake of making him choose between you and his children. Who could ever trust a man (or woman) that chooses a woman over his children?
I do think that both you and your husband should make time for each other. Have a date night. It’s not unreasonable to ask for time with him as well, but do it in a way that does not criticize or compare the time he shares with his kids.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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