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You won't be alone for the rest of your life....It just sounds like this is not the time for you to deal w/a relationship...When your own state of mind needs all of your attention, it's almost impossible to make another connection work....Concentrate on YOU....and when things get more stable in that area, you will find that you almost magically attract better relationship prospects....love grace

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Gosh Mac, what wise words! When I came out of a bad marriage I was untouchable for a very long time. I remember one girl telling me to 'get myself sorted out'. I didn't even know what she was talking about. It took a good five years for my phone to start ringing again, and gradually I understood.

It was about my own vibes. When I felt bad about myself I was good for nobody. When I felt good about myself I was good for everybody. That bad marriage switched my light off, and I had to somehow learn how to switch it on again.

I have known some people who never got their light switched on again.

IMHO we are all faced with that possibility after rejection and
it's a crucial point in our lives.

Good thoughts to you, M.