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Originally Posted by Moufwash
Last year I dated a guy..it lasted for a long time and it wasn't a bad relationship. Our breakup was pretty ugly..but later on we decided to stay friends. We just started talking a lot again but we always end our conversations on a bad note..he usually gets upset over one little bad thing I say and then refuses to talk to me. But the next day he'll be fine! Well we were talking tonight and of course we started arguing again..over the stupid little things...I told him that if we are gonna be friends then we should sort out our problems first! But he didn't want to talk about it...he just said "maybe we shouldn't talk anymore"..but I didn't want that..I think my problem is that I don't want to throw away our friendship and I can't move on. Should I forget about him? Or how could we work this out?
Any help is appreciated..thank you.
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More than likely there are still tension between you guys. It is difficult to stay friends with a ex-relationship bc it is hard to not cross the boundaries and keeping the personal feelings aside from a friendship. Obviously you guys haven't had enough time apart to move on from the relationship. I would say you need more time apart from one another. You need to remember that you guys broke up for a reason and as good of a friendship you may think you have with him... its still just not meant to be to have one another in each other lives.