Hi ((((LMo)))):
I wondered what 'drew' me to the site after so long. Hugs to you, because it sucks to be in the situ. you are in with your friend.
I would let her know that you care and are concerned, and refer her to
www.suicidal.com for additional resources and help in coping with her suicidal feelings.
You can't be her T or the E.R., even if you weren't 3000 miles away.
As you may recall, I have had some experience with this particular issue, and I believe you have done and said everything that you can do and say.
Luv & respect, as always, Jill