My bf has stress and he still is always wanting it. He's in his middle 30's also. I have been with him for 6 years. So if there wasn't anything physically wrong with him, and all of a sudden he just gave me 2 minutes once a week, yeah I'm going to think that something is wrong. Sorry men, but that is just not your nature if there is nothing physically wrong with you. Yeah stress might play some kind of roll in it, but MEN just don't stop giving it up. From what I always have understood about this, it is a man's way of feeling love from a woman. (sex) Were a woman needs the talking, cuddling, romance, flowers all that sorts of stuff. So, if this was me, and my bf just out of the blue just gave me 2 minutes a week, or nothing at all, then I'm going to think that he's out getting it from somewhere else. I do agree that things do calm down after so long, but when a man is in love with a woman he wants it. Usually when it gets to the clam level in a relationship, it is the woman who's drive that slows down, and the man is the one who mainly initiates sex.