Hello 1000, and welcome to PC!
This would be a very frustrating situation. No matter where you work you’re going to run into people you just don’t like or don’t get along with, this is a fact of life. Coping can be very difficult. As Jerrymichele said, as a boss unprofessional behavior is not tolerated. No one is allowed to create a hostile work environment. If your boyfriend has a problem, he should document the problems and contact the HR department. He needs to learn to be proactive rather that reactive, not respond in kind to this type of behavior. Once he does, he becomes the problem.
Another issue that might be in play is the antidepressants. Wellbutrin makes my husband very angry. If this is the case for your boyfriend he should talk to his doctor.
I would have a conversation with him and tell him how you feel. Not in a way that he feels attacked, but lay it out honestly. Do you live together? If so let him know that you feel overwhelmed trying to make ends meet while his work history is so unpredictable. You need to work to live, how does he propose to support himself if he’s unwilling to work?
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