sayimsorry,

I moved your post from the other one to a thread of it's own. Hopefully, this way it will get more attention and responses to it.

I wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom for you. But what comes to my mind is that if you feel that you've wronged your inlaws, and you apologize and make amends for whatevr it is you've done, then that's all you can do. It becomes up to them to decide when and if they are going to forgive you and accept you back as part of the family. But it's still important for you that you know that you did the right thing in trying. And when you do figure out what to say, if it's honest and comes from your heart, then you can't go wrong.

I believe you're new to the forums, so welcome, and I'm very glad you found us. I know you will find a lot of warm and caring people here.

All my best to you,
bptoo

"The brain is a wonderful organ; it starts working the moment you get up in the morning and does not stop until you get to work."