CA. Hi, after this latest round of unreasonable action I have become the focus now ,a dangerous stalker for sure ,all a ruse to get rid of me.I still have no explanations of how she was influenced to turn away from me and why she has been so determined to avoid me. My stalkings are consistent with attempted calls to her cell, .text messages, notes left on the front door. As far as my presence on the property, a gated condo complex, as one who has all keys and could come and go as I wished I was plainly waiting for her to come home so I could see that she was all right and find out her intent on many issues Up til this point I lived here when I was in San Ramon. We had been inseparable for about 6 months with no serious issues.(other than her bipolar symptoms) About a month ago she became irritable with our casual lifestyles and how negligent she had become in re: to her foreclosure and the usual stack of bills. There was a lot to do. The first thing she did which didn't make sense was to block her cell# and would not say where she was, firmly refusing to see me for any reason .She would not answer any pointed question from me and would tell me she "will call later". Her behavior towards me started to crush me.
Her restlessness opened me up for target review and the backlash .I had been back in Burlingame for about a week during which time she said she was getting "friends" to help do the new schedule of work. This old friend became a permanent helper, replacing me and all involvement at her home. So then came the first question about her behavior from me What are you doing? What about me? Every following but very important question was ignored.then she got a new phone and blocked the #. Answers don't come so more notes are generated. She and him are no where to be found. The impact of the role her friend started to play became more and more aware to me just last night as a large bell went off along with the questions implicating him to be having too much influence over her decisions as he is babysitting her depression 24/7. He now is in the position of savior and counselor to a vulnerable and insecure woman and had gone way to far in his decision to become so involved at all. She was in a relationship when he offered his help and somehow justified and agreed that I was a bad influence whom must be removed. He even had his cell turned off. What was I to think of their secretive moves and the negative press that was spreading about me.
I do believe that she was in a manic state and caught up in the "change" and the new direction with him. How unfortunate. I want to approach this guy with legal documents to end his involvement if i can and if she will wake up and agree. Our life together can not be discarded by me so easily. Any help out there on this one??